Many of us
experienced bullying, harassment, broken hearted, being scapegoat, and the
like.
What would you
feel when you are emotionally hurt by someone? And what if it happens over and
over again? Would you hate him/her? Would you seek revenge? Would you feel so
down and miserable?
As Muslims, we
are taught to play cool, I meant when someone did something terrible to us, we
MUST NOT hate them, let alone having a desire for revenge. Logically speaking,
you understand what they did to you was very unpleasant and you might consider
them as heartless creatures or whatsoever, so if you are smart and wise enough,
YOU MUST NOT INTEND TO SEEK REVENGE, not even thinking about it. Because if you
ever have that idea in your mind, let alone performing your revenge mission, it
means you are simply as heartless as they are.
You got hurt so
badly so you want to cry and you hate being in such situation and you hate
those who hurt you, and bla bla bla. Yes, you are human being thus it is normal
to feel such emotions. But when your mind and heart always connect to Allah,
you will face the situation with patience, du’a, and a lot of Istighfar. FORGET
YOUR SORROW! Ask Allah to grant you more patience and make good du’a for those
who have costs you pain. Remember that ALLAH IS WITH THOSE WHO MAINTAIN
PATIENCE (Al-Baqarah:153).
If you are
patience, you are with Allah, and there is no way for Syatan or Evil Being to
get into your blood.
DO NOT FALL INTO
THE DEPTHS OF MISERY AND HATRED, BECAUSE SYATAN IS THERE. Syatan is the one
that is so extremely incredibly happy to see you falling down. If you are
feeling so down now, Get up! It is never too late to ask Allah’s Mercy. When
you walk toward Allah, He runs toward you (Hadist by Imam Muslim)
Do not keep
hatred inside you. Seriously, there is no benefit in doing so. Hatred haunts
and ruins your soul. When you hate someone, you give him/her space in your
brain, exactly similar to the case when you think about someone whom you love.
I meant you surely will always remember how evil that person is, how could
he/she do that, and you will eventually re-feel the pain again and again.
Haven’t you got enough of pain? Come on, give mercy to your own heart and plus it
is totally a waste of your brain capacity, no?
Believe this:
WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND. Allah tells us that there is always compensation
(reward or punishment) for every deed we have done. This compensation may be
given in the world or in the afterlife.
May our heart
always be filled with mercy and faith!
